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January 26, 2010
January 16, 2010
December 22, 2009
So, about that snow...
You know, that snow that the boys were so excited about?
As most of the East coast knows...it started, and then it didn't STOP. Snow and snow and snow, as Lorelei said! Now I know you Northerners are laughing away at us, you who see snow on a daily, weekly, monthly basis, probably ad nauseam, but down here, this is a *big* deal!
For an area that doesn't see much snow, getting a big snow has one unfortunate side affect- lack of electricity. Our power went out late Friday night, and thankfully returned a few hours later, but a lot of people in our area were without power and water for three days in freezing temperatures. Not good! We had another family of seven whom we know through our homeschooling co-op stay with us Sunday night so that they could get warm and have some "real" food after being in the cold for two days. Brrrrrrr! Their youngest little girl was so happy about the warm bath she'd get- it was all she could talk about until she got one. It made me laugh. There are a few greater pleasures than a warm bath on a cold night, for sure.
Our weekend plans were totally upended by the storm, but the 'new plans' were infinitely better. We've had so much fun! It was nice to just play and laugh and eat and sleep- somewhat in that order- without lots of other things pressing in. We still haven't built our gingerbread barn, but that is No.1 on our list of things we want to do today.
My "other" list- the one I've pretty much chucked out the window at this point- is probably going to stay that way. Our Christmas card has yet to be dealt with, among other things. And I wouldn't brave the post office if you paid me good money to do it! I will happily wait until next Monday, when things will be a lot more sane.
In other news, Life in the Making is moving, very soon. Probably around the first of year. It was/is an early Christmas present from my talented tech-y husband. Don't worry, I'll give you plenty of time to re-point your RSS feeds and all that jazz. I am really excited about what is coming next for the blog- I hope you all enjoy it too. We've been working on it and planning the change for a few months now- some goodies and fun things planned!
September 25, 2009
July 24, 2009
March 30, 2009
January 14, 2009
Catching the light...
Every once in a blue moon, Rebekah and I get a chance to slip away for a few hours for some "just us" time. It almost always involves a new restaurant to try, good food, and a hot drink or two (coffee for me and tea or hot chocolate for her). The hours slip away as we talk about everything under the sun. Eventually, the phones start ringing, as husbands caring for kids begin to wonder if we'll ever surface. Poor guys.
It's pretty much guaranteed that, at some point, we'll talk about blogging. You see, we met through blogging. Rebekah and I both read Elise's blog, A Path Made Straight. One thing led to another as we realized we lived in the same state. Emails begin to fly. We met in person a few times, and it quickly blossomed into a true blue friendship. We've carried each other through a tough year. (By the way, she is a killer cook. Seriously. You almost want to get sick just so she'll spoil you. Almost.)
This last Saturday, we got to slip away. It was the rainiest, yuckiest day outside, and we were tucked into a booth, warm and cozy. We talked of our kids (we both have four), of our husbands, of the Christmas just past, of family relationships. Sometimes it's hard to trace the map of our conversations- we cover so much ground. I had paused to take a sip of my drink. She had been looking out the window, contemplative. She turned back to look at me. "You know, I think that's why I blog. That's why I call it Beautiful Days. Because I have to make this conscious choice to turn away from the old patterns, to find the beautiful. Like Ann says [The Ann she is referring to is Ann Voskamp, Holy Experience]. To purpose to see it. To know that God is moving. Because it is so easy...so easy...to descend to this place that is dark, that bears no joy." I paused again, drinking her words in.
Even now, four days later, her words still pass through my consciousness. (It has been on her mind too- she posted almost the exact conversation here. Pure poetry.) Back in September, we all had been talking about why we blog: LL had been wondering, Ann had been mindful of fruitless blogging, and I had been considering the journey. There is definitely a dichotomy, particularly for Christian bloggers. Is what we're doing edifying, encouraging, and uplifiting to the body of Christ? Where's the line between showing everyday life and flaunting it, porn style, as Ann so aptly put it? Are we being honest or are we trying to gloss things over so that we appear perfect? Is the community real, or just imagined? (I argue that it is definitely real. I know it to be true- how much I have been blessed by bloggers who have emailed me, commented here, supported me, encouraged me...prayed for me!)
Rebekah's statements are such a valuable contribution to the conversation on blogging, big and small. It's been dwelling with me, making me think, reminding me to catch the light.
It's pretty much guaranteed that, at some point, we'll talk about blogging. You see, we met through blogging. Rebekah and I both read Elise's blog, A Path Made Straight. One thing led to another as we realized we lived in the same state. Emails begin to fly. We met in person a few times, and it quickly blossomed into a true blue friendship. We've carried each other through a tough year. (By the way, she is a killer cook. Seriously. You almost want to get sick just so she'll spoil you. Almost.)
This last Saturday, we got to slip away. It was the rainiest, yuckiest day outside, and we were tucked into a booth, warm and cozy. We talked of our kids (we both have four), of our husbands, of the Christmas just past, of family relationships. Sometimes it's hard to trace the map of our conversations- we cover so much ground. I had paused to take a sip of my drink. She had been looking out the window, contemplative. She turned back to look at me. "You know, I think that's why I blog. That's why I call it Beautiful Days. Because I have to make this conscious choice to turn away from the old patterns, to find the beautiful. Like Ann says [The Ann she is referring to is Ann Voskamp, Holy Experience]. To purpose to see it. To know that God is moving. Because it is so easy...so easy...to descend to this place that is dark, that bears no joy." I paused again, drinking her words in.
Even now, four days later, her words still pass through my consciousness. (It has been on her mind too- she posted almost the exact conversation here. Pure poetry.) Back in September, we all had been talking about why we blog: LL had been wondering, Ann had been mindful of fruitless blogging, and I had been considering the journey. There is definitely a dichotomy, particularly for Christian bloggers. Is what we're doing edifying, encouraging, and uplifiting to the body of Christ? Where's the line between showing everyday life and flaunting it, porn style, as Ann so aptly put it? Are we being honest or are we trying to gloss things over so that we appear perfect? Is the community real, or just imagined? (I argue that it is definitely real. I know it to be true- how much I have been blessed by bloggers who have emailed me, commented here, supported me, encouraged me...prayed for me!)
Rebekah's statements are such a valuable contribution to the conversation on blogging, big and small. It's been dwelling with me, making me think, reminding me to catch the light.
December 16, 2008
The ever elusive photograph...
There is only one time of year that I try to get all four of the children to sit down together and it begins with a carefully laid battle plan that coincides with fresh naps and full tummies. Even at that, it always takes a few photographs. Like, 168. That was the final total, shot over a period of about five minutes. Thank God for Canons and their quick shutter speed- I actually got more than one good photograph this year and had a few to choose from!
September 15, 2008
September 03, 2008
Why I blog...
(So that I can share stinkin' cute pictures of my children. *laughter* )
Seriously though. LL tagged me for her 'five ways blogging changed my life' meme, and I also had someone ask me last night what I wrote about, so it's about time I quantified just exactly what Life in the Making is all about. Before I answer LL's meme, though, a little back history for many of the readers who have just recently begun to read here.
I started this little space mostly as a way to share with grandparents the goings on of our days, with all the associated stinkin' cute pictures that go along with that. I've also been a part of the 2peas scrapbooking community for a very long time, and liked the idea of having a blog to share my most recent creations in a more in depth form...talking about how and when and why, what inspired me, etc. I had no 'big dreams' for this space. It was started more for practical reasons than anything else. And then...well...the blogging bug bit, and hard. I suddenly realized that there was a whole world of blogs out there full to the brim of people's life stories, and I suddenly realized that I could make my blog much more reflective of who I was instead of being a repository of the detritus of my life. I realized it was okay not only to talk about every day kid stuff, I could talk about life and faith and art and, and, and, and...here we are. I could take my degree in English and my love of writing and art and use it to make a place in cyber-land where people could visit and feel refreshed, encouraged, and loved. I hope that when people stop by they get a glimpse of the Lover of my soul that loves them too. I try to keep it real, though, and be honest about my struggles and failings (hence, the confessions and musings byline). I want readers to know that I am real, broken person on a journey towards Home.
Which brings me to LL. Here's the rules:
1. Write about 5 specific ways blogging has affected you, either positively or negatively.
2. link back to the person who tagged you
3. link back to this parent post (I'm
not so much interested in generating links, but rather in tracking the
meme so I can perhaps do a summary post later on that looks at patterns
and interesting discoveries.)
4. tag a few friends or five, or none at all
5. post these rules— or just have fun breaking them
* One of the first things that changed my life in the blogging experience was the discovery that there were many crafters, graphic designers, and all manner of artists making a living at home. I guess my perception of what I could do from home had been limited. Not too soon after this discovery, I started Memoria.Arts Design Studio. I haven't been able to do as much as I have wanted to do with it, but at the same time, projects have come along at regular intervals that perfectly fit a need in our budget. I do a total mishmash of things under that header: web design (everything you see here on the blog, I've designed and fit into the template typepad provides); graphic design in terms of logos, business cards, letterhead, and the like; photography (everything that is posted here, except for one picture of a cathedral, is all my own work), both candid and posed (babies and weddings mostly). I credit most of this discovery process to Amanda Soule and Ali Edwards. I would really like to open up an Etsy shop at some point, and polish my business and marketing skills.
* In almost rapid fire sucession, I found a lot of blogs that were from moms who stayed at home and blogged about homemaking and mothering. Some of my favorites are Pleasant View Schoolhouse and A Path Made Straight, and The Flourishing Mother. It was just a huge shot in the arm for me. I felt so encouraged, and so inspired, by these bloggers. Instead of talking down about what often many people percieve as drudgery, they talked about it in a way that seemed very matter of fact, everyday, even beautiful. They helped (and help) me to understand my calling as a mother. It wasn't just in the esoteric sense, either. I've learned so much in the practical sense about what mothering and housekeeping and being a wife is. (That, and there are seriously good recipes are circling out there!)
* Through some of those very same bloggers, I discovered blogs like Holy Experience, A Study in Brown, and Sanctuary Moment. There was a profound interior shift in my life at that point. It's pretty hard to explain. I was raised in the church. But the example, testimony, and writing of these ladies struck me hard. Faith is meant to be an everyday, living, breathing, walking, worshipping experience, in the quotidian moments, and in the exalted ones, in the valleys and in the mountain tops. I found myself really considering for the first time in my life what that meant in my everyday. Much of what I have blogged in the Faith category within the last eight months is in that vein. Those that have been reading here for a long time have probably noted that extensive shift.
* Real life relationships. This is such a fun story to tell. I had read A Path Made Straight (Elise) for going on a year or so, when on a whim, I clicked through her linked friends, and found Beautiful Days (Rebekah). I must have read her blog for six months until one day, I noticed she lived in the same state as me. I dropped an email and said hello. Come to find out, we live literally 20 minutes from one another. We're now good off-line friends. God answered a deep prayer of my heart through blogging, and in such a neat way, all three of us know it was God's doing!
* The most profound effect of blogging on me? Community. Knowing that I am not alone. Knowing that people have walked the journey before me. Knowing that people are praying. It was apparent during James' cancer scare, and it was thrown into sharp relief in this last month with the loss of our child and my subsequent surgery. And, two, that it was okay to say "help!" I think we in the Christian community really struggle with this. It's hard to say that we are struggling or stumbling, or that our faith is dimming in the face of hardship. But until we admit to it, there is no way for fellow believers to help and carry the burden with us, which is God's design and intent. ( I've recently been reading Acts 2:42-47, and have been reminded that "and all who believed were together and had all things in common".) The blogging community blows my mind. That there are people praying for me all over the US and farther, and that I am praying for other bloggers all over the world. At the end of the day, we share similar struggles and losses, dreams and successes.
So there ya go.
I tag:
{And I realize that everyone is getting into the swing of the school year, so take your time!}
Rebekah (of course!)
Elise (again, of course!)
Andrea
Samantha
Suzy
(and Suzy, I am getting to your tag next! )
Joy
Momma to five wonderful kids, married to my Beloved of nine years, pursuing the quiet life, intertwining art, literature, and love.
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